Fallout.

So, there was a fallout between Miki and I. A major one.

On Wednesday night, we were discussing moving-type items when the question of bed lofting arose. She had agreed before we even got our room that she would loft her bed and I'd have mine down, as last year it was opposite for both of us in our separate rooms. It felt only fair. Well, her ROTC scholarship came through so she's actually going to be in the dorms and she now refuses to loft her bed.
All I asked was for her to try it lofted for one night. As a favor to me, after having to put up with living with her jackass boyfriend all summer who was incredibly rude to me and to anyone I had over to visit, I thought she could do that one little thing. She absolutely refused. My parents and therapists have told me to stand up for myself in these situations, so I refused to back down. Various unkind things were tossed back and forth and she brought up the dishes thing AGAIN...

But the straw that broke the Janna's back was when she brought up my illness. She said that I use my illness as an excuse to get out of things. That was it. No friend would ever say that.

So, that's that. I am done with her.

I'm not sure what's going to happen... and I'm really scared, Zumi, Ashley, and Norman are all alone with those two and are probably not getting any care now. Either way, it's my dorm room and I'm moving in on Wednesday. If she doesn't want to live with me, she can make arrangements with the university to move elsewhere.

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